Life is the greatest teacher which keeps imparting us with a variety of experience and information which we were seldom aware of, instead what we do is nothing but to simply ignore those lessons that it tries us to understand and taste it, though certain event turns out to be a bit bitter. However the human mind is programmed in such a way that we accept only those situations that fall under our comfort zone and sporadically venture towards those which may actually challenge us. Since childhood we had been well pampered that taking up challenges is itself becoming a great challenge these days. And if we do face a trail of such challenges, what we do, is just to bleat upon the same "life" for being too rough on us.
It is what everyone does and no one can deny of this fact, though there are few who had actually set free of them self and landed into the dirty mud to reach any milestone. So life had been always providing us with new chapters to read about and those who succeed in reading and understanding it completely move ahead, while those who can not wind up the task end up hanging in an awkward position in the mighty forests of Kodaikanal (Suicide Point).
After struggling very hard for almost 20 odd years now, somehow i ended up earning a degree to trail behind my name which is very essential these days (An essential criteria for marriage).
It might look bit crazy, but that is the current situation and even some do not get a girl with that degree. Guess what, these days the expectations of the family seeking a groom is always on a high scale. Families looking out for a good groom to their daughter have the following criteria based on which the innocent boys are being filtered out.
1) The groom should have at least a Post Graduate degree.(Too hard for us)
2) He should be residing in some distant land nothing within the country
3) The salary
4) The character
Oh god!!! so i still have got 2 years of Post Graduation to take up in order to satisfy one of the above mentioned criteria. One good thing is that, I do not have to think about it much currently as i can focus entirely on the job that i will be taking up in days to come.
Just days back "life" ended its decades long lecture about "Schooling's/College" and now it has come up with the new subject to teach me. Oh no!!! not again the same teacher.At times i used to think if ever it would find a place to rest, and i found out that it finally dozes off with your last breath. It is a very long journey to hold upon across decades.
All these years it was of course making each and every day hard but instead it was actually preparing me to face the real battle out in the streets. Meaning, how to face the real world that functions outside the books. Knowledge imparted through books were just to give us a head start. Learn from the books, imply it at the right situation in case you face one.
So all these 20 years of theoretical knowledge on courage, self belief, discipline, decision making, success, failures, pains, etc has helped me or in other terms, molded me to take up a serious role in the future.
Right now i am at the starting grid and ahead of me is the target upon which the knowledge acquired would be practically tested, in all possible ways. Face each situation and learn from it. It may directly or indirectly try to implant something within you, that would always come handy, any point in time that you live.
It is just "The Beginning", so lots more to come...
Just waiting for the "Go Ahead" signal :)
It is what everyone does and no one can deny of this fact, though there are few who had actually set free of them self and landed into the dirty mud to reach any milestone. So life had been always providing us with new chapters to read about and those who succeed in reading and understanding it completely move ahead, while those who can not wind up the task end up hanging in an awkward position in the mighty forests of Kodaikanal (Suicide Point).
After struggling very hard for almost 20 odd years now, somehow i ended up earning a degree to trail behind my name which is very essential these days (An essential criteria for marriage).
It might look bit crazy, but that is the current situation and even some do not get a girl with that degree. Guess what, these days the expectations of the family seeking a groom is always on a high scale. Families looking out for a good groom to their daughter have the following criteria based on which the innocent boys are being filtered out.
1) The groom should have at least a Post Graduate degree.(Too hard for us)
2) He should be residing in some distant land nothing within the country
3) The salary
4) The character
Oh god!!! so i still have got 2 years of Post Graduation to take up in order to satisfy one of the above mentioned criteria. One good thing is that, I do not have to think about it much currently as i can focus entirely on the job that i will be taking up in days to come.
Just days back "life" ended its decades long lecture about "Schooling's/College" and now it has come up with the new subject to teach me. Oh no!!! not again the same teacher.At times i used to think if ever it would find a place to rest, and i found out that it finally dozes off with your last breath. It is a very long journey to hold upon across decades.
All these years it was of course making each and every day hard but instead it was actually preparing me to face the real battle out in the streets. Meaning, how to face the real world that functions outside the books. Knowledge imparted through books were just to give us a head start. Learn from the books, imply it at the right situation in case you face one.
So all these 20 years of theoretical knowledge on courage, self belief, discipline, decision making, success, failures, pains, etc has helped me or in other terms, molded me to take up a serious role in the future.
Right now i am at the starting grid and ahead of me is the target upon which the knowledge acquired would be practically tested, in all possible ways. Face each situation and learn from it. It may directly or indirectly try to implant something within you, that would always come handy, any point in time that you live.
It is just "The Beginning", so lots more to come...
Just waiting for the "Go Ahead" signal :)
Hey good start :) all the best :)
ReplyDeleteGo on buddy.. There are a lot of things people would love to know about you. This is the best definition of life I've ever heard so far. "Go Ahead" :)
ReplyDeletemy dear frnd.....this is it u got the signal...and v r there for u to help u always.. b in touch........god wil b with u ...all the best..go ahead :):)..success starts from here....
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